I don't think I'm ed but what am I...?

People here are so mean!!! I suggest seeing your OBGYN and having your hormone levels tested. Often when the body produces too much testosterone, in women, it gives them a sense of masculinity. I think you are a typical tomboy! Just because you have male tendencies, does not mean you are gender confused. Just as many men are more in touch with their feminine side, you are more in touch with your masculine side! I have seen straight women just like you! I have a feeling you take the more male role in relationships, which is normal for couples! Just continue being you and enjoy every minute of it! I am sure you will make someone an awesome partner!!